I have decided that my word for 2022 is be...just plain old be. Be happy, be sad, be in the moment what ever that may be. Be kind and patient if you can be, if not be bitchy... above all else be a good advocate.
Far Guy is a bit better, I spent the afternoon with him until I fell asleep in a chair and he sent me home. He is still getting IV antibiotics and steroids.
We are having a blizzard but the roads were good in town.
Proof of life
He has a very large private room in the farthest part of the hospital. It took me longer to walk from his room to my vehicle than it took me to drive home. Hopefully we can get him home one day soon.