Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Funeral Celebration

 Today is the day we celebrate my Fathers long life.  96 years!  

He survived Korea...
Bladder cancer...
All of his siblings...

Gone from My Sight by Henry Van Dyke

I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side,
spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts
for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck
of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

 

Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone."

 

Gone where?

 

Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast,
hull and spar as she was when she left my side.
And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me -- not in her.


And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone,"
there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices
ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!"

 

And that is dying...




35 comments:

Ed said...

In my neck of the woods, we describe losing someone like your father in the same terms as a library burning down. A huge loss of wisdom and knowledge that will no longer be around for others.

May your father rest in peace.

Jenn Jilks said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

Val Ewing said...

96 years, that surely is something. Your dad had an amazing life and thankfully he is no longer in pain.

<3

Lynda said...

From the few things I have read on your blog over the years, he was an amazing man. I hope the family's celebration of him is lovely - - and that you all have a precious time together. Hopefully the roads and weather are conducive to easy travel.

Gemma's person said...

Beautiful tribute. It is so very hard to lose your dad.

Anonymous said...

So sorry for your loss. He will always be in your memories. I know how hard it is to lose a dad. Praying for you and your family. RHill, TX

Rita said...

Beautiful poem.
*love and hugs*

Sara said...

A life well lived. Keeping your family in my prayers.

DJan said...

You were blessed to have your dad for so long. I was only 38 when my own father passed away. He didn't even make it to seventy. But I still miss him and my mom all these years later. So sorry for your loss. :-(

Maebeme said...

A lovely tribute. I'd not seen or heard that poem before but it is truly beautiful.

Your father lived a long and productive life. May he rest in peace.

Wanderingcatstudio said...

Sending big hugs to your family. I imagine you have many good memories of his long and wonderful life.

Galla Creek said...

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.
Alfred Lord Tennyson

linda m said...

So sorry for your loss! He surely had a long life and left you with some beautiful memories! What a beautiful tribute to your Father.

Red said...

Have a good day of remembrance. Your Dad had a long life well lived.

Sandra said...

I feel he was well-loved all of that long life.

Cathie said...

Oh my! This is the same poem I had in Michael's brochure when he died!!!!!! Sending you a hug!

Sallysmom said...

Lifting you all in prayer.

Anonymous said...

I am sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by the love of Jesus and knowing that your Father is now with Him!


Sandy Berglind at berglindada@gmail.com

HWIT BLOGG said...

Sending a warm hug to you and your family...so sorry. A lovely story you tell us about your dear father.
Love, Titti

At Home In New Zealand said...

Sending you all much love on this sad day 🤍

Susan from the Pacific Northwest said...

What a beautiful poem. And what a long well-lived life.

Robin from P'ville said...

Beautiful young man in his uniform.

Granny Marigold said...

No doubt yesterday was not an easy day. May God give you comfort.

Debi said...

Losing a parent is so hard. How blessed you and your family was to have your father with you for so long. Sending hugs and condolences to you and your family.

Betsy said...

I hope the celebration of your Dad's life has been wonderful and full of love and memories. My heart goes out to you and your family and you will all be in my prayers.
Blessings and love,
Betsy

The Great Ethan Allen said...

A great life! He can now play bingo as much as he wants.

diane in northern wis said...

I love that story about the ship......in fact, I used it when my father passed away in 2000. Hope your dad's funeral was beautiful and full of memories for all. God bless him and all of you.

thecrazysheeplady said...

Amen.

Shirley said...

Beautiful poem....
Your dad was a handsome man , but more so than that, he was loved.
Eternal rest, grant unto him, O Lord. Let perpetual light shine upon him, and may he rest in peace. Amen.

Terry and Linda said...

I'm so glad you got all these long years with him. ANd you got to play Bingo at the last...a special time, just you and him

Leilani Schuck Weatherington said...

You were truly blessed to have such a wonderful man as your father. The poem is wonderful.

cityquilter grace said...

what a lovely poem...so comforting...

L. D. said...

Such a true writing of going and coming to heaven. I am sorry for your loss of your father. All I have read from your blogs is that he was a kind hardworking man. Korea survivor, he sacrificed so much. Smiles in heaven.

Cynthia said...

I’m so sorry to hear of the death of your father. It’s a lovely poem, and I hope you feel it’s comfort.

www.self-sufficientsam.blogspot.com said...

What a beautiful way to look at death, He looks like a kid in that picture and I'm sure he was. My heart is heavy for you.