Thursday, October 31, 2019

Bill

Our friend Bill died last week.  I went to the funeral two plus hours south of us...a fellow friend and woodcarver Jim and his wife Theresa went with me.  Far Guy stayed home unattended and did just fine.  There are too many germs and fragrances for him to be in a crowd.

Bill had many friends from all walks of life.  I first met Bill when I was working at the museum. I wrote a blog about him here. 

Bill died with his boots on working in the yard doing something with his lawn mower.   Bill was 80 years old.   He was born in Canada and raised in a home without running water or electricity.   His Dad worked for the Railroad.  They moved to Northern Northern Minnesota vs Southern Northern Minnesota.  After graduating from High School he went into the Air Force, with the GI Bill he went to school in Bemidji MN and then the University of Minnesota and got a degree in Biology, decided teaching and the classroom was not for him...so he went to Medical School.

He was a Doctor in the ER in Washington State for 9 years then he had a heart attack at the age of 39...city living had taken its toll. Seeking solitude and cold ( he liked cold weather) he headed to the Arctic Circle in Alaska.  He worked there for a number of years...he visited his village by dogsled, the other three doctors there used planes to get to outlying villages....but not Bill.   A nurse caught his eye and much later they would marry.

He came back to Minnesota to care for his aging Mother and in 1987 he married that Nurse he took a liking to in the Far North.

Bill and Janice have a primitive cabin...with a super dooper pooper outhouse in the Park Rapids area.  Bill moved that outhouse a few years back and dug a new hole for it...it was quite a story as he dug so deep he had a hard time getting back out!  Bill joined our woodcarving group.  Bill made 12 Nyckelharpas in his lifetime and would carve the keys at woodcarving and tell us stories.   He was a character...a good one...someone who was a pleasure to call a friend.  We would compare what kind of wildlife we had going through our yards and which birds we were feeding.  One of his favorite sayings was "Get over it!"

Until yesterday I had only heard one Nyckelharpa played at a time...there were at least ten being played in tribute to Bill.  There are only 20 Nyckelharpa players in Minnesota and half of them were there at the funeral.
Bill was frugal, his Nyckelharpa case was handmade.  I commented on the case once...he said it was custom made and fit his Nyckelharpa perfectly.   One time he left his Nykelhapa in my care, I got detailed instructions on how to remove it from the case...and then he said "Pick it up and hold it, I will teach you to play a note or two."  I did and my attempt at playing sounded like a dying cow...but he still left it in my care for a woodcarving exhibit...I was so relieved when Monday rolled around and I could return it safely to him.  He said "How did it go...did you play?" I replied "NOPE it stayed inside the case the entire time!"  He would often give impromptu concerts at woodcarving!

Bill's friend who makes Maple Sugar gave the eulogy and The Doctor's Doctor gave a blessing for The Healer.  They along with the button accordion player and storyteller all gave Bill a good send off accompanied with lots of music.

We stayed for  a funeral lunch; pretzel buns, ham, turkey, cheese, vegetables, fruit and cookies.

I was back home just after dark..
I am certain Bill was there in spirit...his hat and the box he put his foot upon were there.
A photo of Bill I took in 2013. 
Rest In Peace my friend.
Far Side

27 comments:

Pauline Persing said...

Wonderful portrait of a person I would have loved to have known.

DJan said...

I never heard of that instrument before. Rest in peace, Bill. Thank you for bringing him to life in your blog.

Sara said...

People like Bill make our lives richer by far. I'm so glad he was your friend.

Gemma's person said...

Such a beautiful tribute, to what sounds to have been a very special man.

Araignee said...

What a life!!! May his memory be a blessing.

Terry and Linda said...

Such a beautiful tribute...I even cried and I don't know him. The world is losing some amazing people.

Karen said...

What a wonder tribute to a wonderful friend who seemed to lead a glorious life.
A person who I think I would have liked to have known

Rita said...

Oh wow! What a tribute to a fascinating man! I love that his hat and the box were there at the funeral and that there was music!

Betsy said...

What a fantastic tribute to a man that sounds as if he lived life on his own terms. Your words made me feel as if I knew him too...what a gift you have my friend. I love that the instruments he made were played to give him a wonderful send off.
Thanks for sharing these memories with us.
Blessings,
Betsy

Maebeme said...

Wonderful tribute to your friend Bill. He sounds like an amazing character. The world needs more of these men (and women).

Tired Teacher said...

A life well lived - Rest In Peace, Bill.

troutbirder said...

Friends like that are the very best....

Granny Marigold said...

I'm sorry you lost yet another good friend. Bill sounds like such a dear man who lived a good long life in spite of his early heart attack.
I had to look up Nyckelharpa. Never heard of it before.

Bonnie said...

What a man, and what a special tribute you have given him. I am sorry for the loss of your friend.

Anonymous said...

Bill sounds like he was a very talented man and lived to the fullest! It's hard losing friends and family! Sharon

Linda Reeder said...

There is something just wonderful about this post. thank you.

Debi said...

Bill sounds like quite a character and a good friend. I'm so sorry for your loss of this special person.

Leah said...

So sorry ~ your friend Bill sounds like a very special person ~ give thanks that he came into your life and shared so much with you! rest in peace friend Bill

Victoria Zigler said...

Bill sounds like he was a wonderful man. Sorry for his loss, but it sounds like he had a great send-off.

Val Ewing said...

What an amazing person!

thecrazysheeplady said...

Beautiful tribute. So sorry for your loss.

Cynthia said...

What an interesting life! I’m sorry you lost your carving friend.

Henny Penny said...

Bill sounds really special. Sorry you lost a good friend.

marlu said...

What an interesting life he had! I had not heard of the instrument either. Fascinating.
Glad you have such good memories of him.

Jacqi Stevens said...

This is one of those eulogies which makes me wish I had known the man! Dying with your boots on is the way I want to go, too. (Of course, I will likely also be kicking and screaming as I go...)

The Wykeham Observer said...

That is a fun instrument to listen to, I wonder if he ever played at the Nisswa Stammen. I remember all the nyckelharpas up there the last time I went.

Far Side of Fifty said...

Yes he loved playing there! He would show us posters, sadly we never made it there to see all the Nyckelharpas:(