On my Mothers side of the family, my Great Grandfather Dietrich (Dick) became a widower in 1913 when he was 47 years old and he had three sons ages 9, 6 and 4 and a daughter 2 years old who would be my Grandmother. He sent my grandmother off to live with his sister Elizabeth. ( I have heard that My Great Grandmother's death in 1913 was questionable...she was pregnant and fell or was pushed down some stairs by her husband.)
In 1915 Dietrich procured a "mail order bride"...not truly an ordered bride but perhaps some one knew someone...or some men and women took out ads in newspapers. There were also people who were "bride brokers" and for a fee you could get a name and write letters back and forth.
The bride, Bertha was 45 when she arrived in Minnesota from New York. Her step sons would be ages 11, 8 and 6 by then. It must have been quite a shock to become an instant mother to three young boys. My Grandmother never returned to the family fold...she remained with her fathers sister until she married. ( Perhaps it was safer for her there)
I never heard anything nice about Bertha...in about 1935 she turned two of her step sons and my grandfather and grandmother in for making moonshine. After that she was known as an "evil woman".
I found her obituary the other day.
Far Side

