Let’s go back to a few weeks ago.
Far Guy had a funny (not ha ha funny)looking spot on his chest. We had numerous conversations about it…make an appointment soon. He refused to have it looked at until I had a date for spine surgery. Once I had a date…he had a biopsy. He thought it was a cyst, I hoped it was a cyst. Results would take 7-10 days.
As I was coming out of surgery last Tuesday June 10th Far Guy’s phone rang. It is CANCER. CHEST CANCER. Far Guy and Jen are together when they get the news. They decide not to tell me right away…good decision as I have to have the simplest of things repeated many times. They shoulder the news alone but together. Decisions are made when and where to see Doctors. They made decisions exactly as I would have.
Grand Forks ND is a no brainer as Jen and Andy live close by. The Oncologist can see Far Guy on Friday. We head North. We met the oncologist on Friday June 13th, he seems like a kind man…Dr B.
The CHEST CANCER is Stage three because it has come through the chest wall. More testing will be done this week on Wednesday and Thursday with a Dr B appointment on Thursday afternoon…to make a plan.
Prayers are appreciated. We trust that God is in charge. BUT it is still hard. We are scared, discouraged and mad all rolled into one emotion.
I will return as I am able.
FarSide
Oof, that was unexpected news of the worst kind. Prayers coming!
ReplyDeletePraying for you both.
ReplyDeleteNO!!!!!!!!!!! :(
ReplyDeletePrayers for Far Guy and everyone else too.
ReplyDeleteso sorry to hear this discouraging news...will keep you both on my prayer list for certain...God knows when all things happen...
ReplyDeleteI don't know what to say because words really don't mean a whole lot at times. But anyway I will give it a try and am sending love to both of you and will be lifting you both in prayer.
ReplyDeleteOh, dear. Hope it can be eradicated!
ReplyDeletePraying for you all! You’re plugged in well to the medical system - praying for best treatment plan!
ReplyDeletePraying for Far Guy and you. God is still a healer! RHill, TX
ReplyDeleteYou and Far Guy are in my prayers. Having recently undergone a similar ordeal with my wife, I certainly know what you are feeling right now and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy!
ReplyDeleteI was sad to read this word (cancer) this morning. Sounds like Jen is on top of things and getting the ball rolling with the needed appointments. My prayers for Far Guy and continued prayers for you too Connie. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteOh my - you are both in my prayers! Grand Forks was probably a good decision, both for the doctors available and for the support while you both navigate this. Keep taking those healing naps!!
ReplyDeleteOh, what shocking news! You are right that you are in the Lords hands. Prayers for all of you. Jean T.
ReplyDeleteSending the good healing vibes on full blast!!!!
ReplyDeletePraying for you both!
ReplyDeletemany prayers coming your way
ReplyDeleteVery sorry for Far Guys C diagnosis. Glad you have each other to sort through the emotional journey that any cancer is. Truly hope the many advancements in quality C care, are good options for your beloved Gene.
ReplyDeleteGentle {hugs} as you continue to heal from surgery.
Oh, it seems so unfair that the two of you are going through so much. However, I think you're both so supportive of one another and have a wonderful family who will continue to encircle you in their love and care.
ReplyDeleteI will keep you in my thoughts as Far Guy and you continue on this journey.
Oh, Connie, I am so sorry. You and Far Guy are in my thoughts and best wishes.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for yet more bad news. I can only imagine how you and your family are feeling.
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry for all of you with this latest distressing news. Know that love and prayers and good wishes (❤️🙏🏻including mine) continue every moment through this journey called life. Blessings to each of you.
ReplyDeletePrayers for you both. God is in charge as you say but I know it's difficult. I have turned my cancer over to God and I trust in his care. I'm holding you both in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteAch wat erg, voor jullie allebei bidt ik, daarnaast wens ik jullie veel sterkte.
ReplyDeleteI am so terribly sorry for this news for you all. My prayers to you all for full and quick recovery with God's healing. PRAYS !!! Dawn P. Albany, GA USA
ReplyDeleteNo, no, no. I can only imagine how discouraged you are, but GOD is in control. We’ll both be praying everyday. Healing got you and a good plan for Far Guys treatment plan to be effective and quick.
ReplyDeleteHuge hugs my dear friend.
Blessings and love,
Betsy
Good that Jen has strong shoulders. Sending my thoughts, prayers. and good wishes your way.
ReplyDeleteGoodnight Gram
That is not what anyone wants to hear.... prayers continuing for you and Gene. I am glad you have such a wonderful family for support in this trying time.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this. You got lots of prayers coming from here. Like you said, God is in control, but I will add my prayers and hopes for a good outcome.
ReplyDeleteI hope your faith gives you comfort, whatever happens.
ReplyDeleteThanks for letting us know. We care about you two.
That news is a horrible kick in the gut! I remember when you mentioned the "spot".
ReplyDeleteIn spite of all this, please let Jen and Andy do as much as they can regarding this as they have already done.
I know your huge loving heart for caring for your husband and your care is the reason he has beat pneumonia as often as he has.
You must still do the very best recovery you can do. It is what the family needs right now, also. It will make all the difference in how pain-free and mobile you can be going forward. You do not want to end up bed-ridden. Plus, they are doing what they can to relieve your stress as much as possible while you do your part to get better.
Many, many prayers for FG and wisdom for the doctors he has now.
I'm sorry to hear the diagnosis for Far Guy. He has had to fight for a long time. This is us one more fight. I wish him all the best on this fight.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you all, as you deal with this new and unexpected trauma. I am praying for far guy to beat this thing, for you to continue to heal from your back surgery and for your whole family to gather together and support each other big time. I'm so very sorry to hear this news but send up many prayers to God for far guy. Please let us know what's happening when you can.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this! You guys certainly don't need one more thing on your health plate! Prayers, prayers, prayers. I am so glad you have your family to help you. Gosh darn it!
ReplyDeleteThis is tough news and I am sorry to hear it. I do hope that the treatments go well. Uff-dah, one blow after another.
ReplyDeleteOh, I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. I'm sending lots of good thoughts to you and Far Guy. If anyone can beat this, he can.
ReplyDeleteThat is really difficult for you, I know. All the best. You'll get through this.
ReplyDeleteMany prayers coming you folks' way, Connie. Sheesh, when it rains it pours. I'm glad it was caught. Let the treatment begin. ~Andrea xoxo
ReplyDeletePRAYING for you and FAR GUY!!! Many prayers, often and throughout the day!!!
ReplyDeleteOh no! I'm so glad Jen was there with him when he got the news. And what a time to get the news! Glad they waited to tell you. I really hope they can operate and get it all!! That was the last thing you needed to hear. You have both been through so much. Thank goodness you have such a wonderful family. *healing prayers and love*
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Cancer is not easy.
ReplyDeleteLD....I did sense that something was wrong. We have been hitting appointments and dealing with life's everyday problems so I have not kept up on blogs and yet I was hoping something was not wrong. I am so sorry. I am glad you are near the bigger hospital and caretakers are there too. All sorts of prayers are going up right now.
ReplyDeleteWell THAT'S not good. I can imagine how scary this is, and you guys already had a lot on your plates. I will begin praying now. I'm sorry I haven't swung over here sooner. Sending hugs too.
ReplyDeleteGood morning. It has taken a day or two to get my comment down. I join you in sad - mad. Sorry that you both are going through this. I am thankful you have Jen and Andy to join you in navigating this unwanted journey. I am sending you all prayers and strength. You both have so many that care and love you (hugs).
ReplyDeleteScared, discouraged and mad for sure!
ReplyDeleteOh, bummer!!! I was shocked to read that after all you 2 have been through. I pray for you guys every day and have for a long time....I will continue. I am so glad you have good people, good doctors and a good attitude! Hugs ~ Sam
ReplyDeleteHoping for a speedy evaluation and an effective treatment. Cancer is scary but there are so many new discoveries and therapies for it. Take care!
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